How could so and so do this to me? Why do I always fall for the wrong guy? People are always taking advantage of me! No one ever listens to me!! HINT: It’s not about you. Don’t worry it’s not about me either. 🤷♂️ 🤷♀️
“Don’t take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.” ~ Don Miguel Ruiz
In Evolutionary Astrology the 1st house represents US and how we enter the world. The 7th house represents not only how we participate with others, it also holds our Shadow side. So we work out our Shadow energies in partnership with others and they with us. 👻💞👻
So often the “others” in our life seem to enter in to just stir up trouble. The mother in law, the nosy neighbor, gum cracking co-worker, etc. People who are stuck seem like they are dating the same person with a different face over and over again. Having the same friend over and over again. Dealing with the same boss over and over again. 😈
As much as they try and change their circumstances the same thing keeps getting recreated! 😭😵😖
Once a person resolves or heals their shadow as it is being expressed through another, the dynamic of the relationship will change or the relationship will cease because there is no further need for that person to be in their life. 🚑👩⚕️
The perfect example of this is a colleague of mine who literally every guy she dated ~ lasted about three months before they broke up. The very next girl the guy would start dating — he married. This happened more than four times in a row!! 💍💞
See, they were working out their shadow side of commitment with her, but she was not engaging in the work herself. As they moved on, she remained stuck. Happily, we figured out the lessons and resolved the block. HOORAY!! 💃🕺
Taking responsibility for where you are in life, doesn’t mean that you have failed. Only that you have begun to awaken to your own greatness and power. 👑🎇🎆 With all the eclipses and all the retrogrades, this has been an entire summer of shadow work. If you are feeling a little exhausted you wouldn’t be alone.
Setting aside some time to work this out with an Intuitive as a Guide can certainly move along much quicker than sifting through 100’s of Facebook posts and online Groups. Make an investment in you and save yourself some of the heartache and headache of going it alone. You will be amazed!